This works beautifully, as most gay boys stay with family or friends till very late in their lives, so they are always on the lookout for a "With Place", Date :P.
So I found it strange when a date, who I have known for over a year now, insisted that I come down to his pad, this time around..I played the scene in my mind more than a few times, and almost bailed out. But I did go, It was too long since I had met him.
Sweet Man that he is, he had clean and place, and he was excited having me over at his place, but would time and again, stop and say It's not as good, as comfy as your place ..and this bugged me. So I sat him down and asked him, if he thought that way , why did he call me here ?
He was taken back by the question, but he told me that he really wanted to invite me over , for some time now. But some how never had the chance, and that he was also was concerned about the state of the pad...but today he was alone, so he did put some effort cleaning up , and called me ..how can you not like the man?
So it was over a dinner of Alu/Muli Paranthas from Mast Kalandar, we Talked, funny stories from campus , his impending marriage, how he was looking forward to it , and some how, he did not have any of the dichotomy, that is so evident in gay men, he was happy. I am a habitual baiter, so I did throw him a hooker, " Will you continue seeing men?"..and he thought about it for a bit and gave me a confident No!
He explained to me how seeing a men, fulfilled his need for companionship and intimacy, which was impossible for him growing up with Women..and now that he found that in a Woman, he was ready to move on..sex was just incidental in the scheme of things..he looked at me, and told me that it was Ok, if I did not want to meet him any more..but how could I not? He was honest, truly enjoys and cares...so we keep talking....
Masala Chai@ 8 AM
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this is interesting! however, time shall tell :P
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